Romantically Fit 2024

Design your perfect business and perfect life

*Offered only in Winter 2024

Led by Aubrey Marcus and Vylana Marcus

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Reignite Your Passion; Emotions are Superpowers

What does the relationship of the future look like? Source code changing lessons drawing from positive psychology, Tantra, Kink, and the best of both modern and ancient traditions to bring your relationship to the next level. Single or in relationship, all are welcome.

Aubrey Marcus

Aubrey Marcus is the founder of Onnit, a globally disruptive brand based on a holistic health philosophy he calls Total Human Optimization. Onnit remains an industry leader with products optimizing millions of lives, including many top professional athletes around the world. Aubrey currently hosts the Aubrey Marcus Podcast, a motivational destination for conversations with the brightest minds in athletics, business, mindset, and spirituality with over 100 million listens. He is the author of the NYT Bestselling book Own The Day, Own Your Life has also produced several documentaries through his production company Chakaruna Media.

If you ask Aubrey what he is most passionate about, it is raising awareness for psychedelic medicine, He is a 27 year native of Austin, Texas where he currently resides with his wife Vylana.


Vylana Marcus

Vylana is a visionary sound alchemist who has dedicated her life to healing the collective as both an artist and a medicine woman. Her music has reached millions of people around the world but her passion is delivering unique sound transmissions and other heart-centered modalities that guide people through the realization of their potential.

As a coach in Fit For Service Academy, Vylana is bringing her breadth of wisdom from the difficult lessons and wild success in relationship as well as her deep study in the womanly arts with the legendary Mama Gena. She is currently co-authoring a source code changing book on the subject of pleasure as ethics with Dr. Marc Gafni and Caitlyn Howe.

What To Expect

What is it?

Romantically Fit is an online course designed to dynamically uplevel your love, sex, and intimacy with yourself, and your partner (current or future). Over 13 weeks and 9 chapters of deep inner exploration, we will help put you on the path to a union you didn’t even know was possible.

Who is it not for?

This is not for people who think they have it all figured out, and aren’t open to exploring how the source code of relationships might change. It’s not for people who are worried about what their parents or pastors might think. This is not your basic relationship coaching, so this course is only for people who are ready to  have their mind and heart opened to the full possibility of what the pinnacle of relationship could be.

Who is it for?

Whether you are solo and desiring to find a partner or already in a sacred union, this course will give you the frameworks, the practical tools, and information you can’t google, to bring you to the next level of relationship. If you are looking for greater love within yourself, to heal romantic wounds from the past, and discover the Seven Levels of Sexing, this course is for you. 

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Syllabus Chapters

  • Self Love and Self Pleasure

  • Desire: Attraction & Autonomy

  • Dating: Encountering The Stranger

  • The Three Stations Of Love: Locate Your Relationship

  • Relationship Agreements: Mono, Poly, and Beyond

  • The Seven Levels of Sexing

  • Conflict and Resolution

  • Sacred Union

  • Detoxing: cleanses, parasites, candida

Flexible enrollment

Pick the plan that’s right for you

Our online only option is $1,500 offers 9 weeks of content, connection with others in the course, and “break weeks” for you to catch up or dive deeper into specific topics. When you upgrade to course + summit, you cement your learning and relationships when you attend our 5 day retreat at the end of your session. Summits are $3500 a la carte, save $1000 when you enroll in both.

Online Course

    • Course Dates: July 9–September 18
    • Classes: Wednesdays 3:30PM CST
    • Study Hall: Fridays 1PM CST
  • 9 weeks of online coaching
  • 2 sessions/week
  • Educational resources
  • Community connections
  • FFS App access for duration of course

*No classes on November 22 and 29, December 20 and 27, January 5

Online Course + Summit

    • Summit Date: January 26-30 | Malibu, CA
  • 12 weeks of online coaching
  • 2 sessions/week
  • Educational resources
  • Community connections
  • Lifetime FFS App access
  • 5 day immersive Sedona Summit

*No classes on November 29, December 27, January 5

“I had the most growth I’ve ever experienced in my life in every way shape and form. I made lifelong friendships and learned so much about myself. I am a completely different person, living in so much more peace and trust and I have all of you to thank.”

- Mark Gonzalez

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